Wednesday, September 16, 2015

#nursesunite

I'm grateful for the uproar from nurses following the comments on The View and wanted to add my own thoughts on being a nurse and using a doctor’s stethoscope: 

I wear my stethoscope around my neck every shift. It's a weight that I wear proudly because I've earned the privilege to use it. The privilege to listen to the lungs and heartbeat of a newborn baby, the privilege to care for these moms, babies, and families every day when I go to work. I use that stethoscope to assess my patients, mom and baby, I listen to their lungs, heart, bowel sounds, I take their blood pressure, I check their reflexes, and the doctors that I work with often use my stethoscope too, the one off my neck, the one with Bridget Quinn, RN engraved on it. It's an important tool that I couldn't do my job as a nurse without. There are a few other things required not only to do my job, but to do it well. My hands, critical thinking skills, compassion, resourcefulness, stamina, resilience, education, just to name a few.

My hands have been squeezed through contractions, scratched through pushing, they have wiped away blood, sweat, and tears, they have delivered babies into this world and they have held babies as they leave us, they have started IVs, placed Foley catheters, started and stopped chest compressions, they administer medications, they find the heartbeat of an unborn baby, they check cervixes, and they hold the hand of patients and families through the best and worst times of their lives. 

As a nurse, you quite literally are holding lives in your hands, you better have expert critical thinking skills, you better know all the tricks to get that positional IV running, to turn that OP baby, to convince that mom that she can when she swears she can't, you better be able to make it through your 12-hour turned 17-hour night shift, and you better be ready to come back the next night to do it all over again. As nurses, we are all those things, we are the most trusted profession, and we hold a strong commitment to our patients because we love what we do. It takes a special kind of person to do the job of a nurse, to be a nurse. I know because I am one and because I hear from many people quite often that they could never do some of the things myself and my colleagues do. That may be true for some but for myself and the other many million nurses in the world I could not imagine doing anything else. 

#nursesunite 

Sunday, June 21, 2015

to the father of my future children

To the father of my future children and the fathers of my future childrens' children:

May you be brave enough to be selfless.
May you learn to braid hair or at least try.
May you be silly and playful and never too serious.
May you enjoy their presence, even in the middle of the night.
May our children never wonder if they are loved by you because not only will you show them daily you'll tell them daily.
May you try every day to live up to their expectations.
May you be the superhero they envision you as.
May our children never fear you, instead may they trust you completely.
May you be worthy of their trust.
May you be the type of father that is celebrated not only on Father's Day but every other day.

May we be a beautiful family, with a loving home, with always open doors, a refuge from the rest of the world. 

Love,
Your future children's mother